Blind Dating

So you've agreed to go on a blind date. Whether you met someone online or you were set up by a friend, you are meeting someone face-to-face for the first time. You are understandably nervous and want things to go smoothly. You want to present your best self and let this person get to know the real you.

You may find a mutual attraction and hit it off, but then again, you may not. Here are some tips to get you through this inevitably awkward blind date:

Blind Date Tips

- Look presentable. Don't just roll out of bed and go.

- Don't have expectations. You may gain a friend, so you have nothing to lose.

- Dress appropriately for the occasion. Don't wear a skirt and high heels if you are going to the beach.

- Choose an activity that is interactive so as not to force conversation.

- Don't get too personal.

- Be respectful. Don't flirt with the waiter/waitress in front of your date. Even if you can't stand the person, there is no need to be rude.

What should we do on our blind date?

Meet in a public place and strive for a relaxed environment. Some activities to consider are bowling, miniature golfing, ice skating etc. Make sure it is something you both agree on ahead of time. You don't want to drag your date on a hike if he/she hates the outdoors.

Rules for Blind Date Conversation

- Be attentive. Listen. Ask questions and act interested in the responses you receive.

- Don't ask anything too personal.

- Don't get into deep topics such as hard core politics, religious discussions etc.

- Don't talk about past relationships or past blind dates. There's nothing like a sob story about how your ex dumped you for your best friend to ruin the mood.

- Don't say anything negative about the matchmaker. Remember that if you are set up by a mutual friend, you both know the individual. Whatever you say can get back to the friend who arranged the date.

How do I end my blind date?

- Be polite.

- Say thank you.

-Shake hands or hug. Do what feels natural to you.

- Don't act too eager, but do let them know you had a good time.

- If you are interested in the person, exchange phone numbers and possibly set up the next date.

- Don't go in for the kiss. You always have the second date option to take things to the next level.

- Thank the matchmaker! (Or ask, "What were you thinking?!" depending on the outcome of the date).

Blind dates can be tough if you are set up with someone you completely don't get along with, are not attracted to, or who is just plain rude. However, it may be a great experience if you meet someone that you instantly click with. Whatever the outcome, congratulate yourself. You took a risk in meeting someone new with the possibility of finding true love. And, hey if it didn't work out this time, there's always that cutie you spotted in the next lane at the bowling alley!